Sunday, July 22, 2007

Hari ni hujan turun dari pagi, actually since yesterday...i thought of going to my siister's place butlooks like I have to forget about it..... and this also has resulted my weekend laundry is not drying up, well at least not dry & crispy. So the ironing tonite is not going to be a large load since the laundry is still wet. There will be some more ironing throughout next week......How I hate ironing??

Dan belanjakanlah (apa yang ada pada kamu) kerana (menegakkan) agama Allah, dan janganlah kamu sengaja mencampakkan diri kamu ke dalam bahaya kebinasaan (dengan bersikap bakhil); dan baikilah (dengan sebaik-baiknya segala usaha dan) perbuatan kamu; kerana sesungguhnya Allah mengasihi orang-orang yang berusaha memperbaiki amalannya.(Surah Al-Baqarah, Ayat 195)

I found terjemahan diatas dalam http://www.alquran.plazaniaga.com/. It is a good website, at least for me.. when i am feeling down, I can search for AL -Quraan verses to cheer me up.

Talking about the above verse, although I am not the expert, I would like to express my understanding...Do provide feedback if my understanding is not quiet right. Harta yang kita cari ataupun pendapatan ( macam gaji kita) bukanlah untuk kita bermewah-mewah... although it is our perogative to decide what to do with our hard earned money. Tapi bukankah rezeki kita itu datang dari Allah S.W.T, dan semudah Dia memberi begitu juga sesenang itu Dia dapat mengambilnya semula... so sepatutnya kita gunakan rezeki menurut kehendakNya. Siapalah kita sebenarnya... bukankan kita hanya hambaNya.



And improving our self to the betterment is a good deed...so sentiasalah kita berusaha untuk memperbaiki diri kita dan sentiasa belajar dan menimba ilmu. Dengan ilmu, kita akan menjadi insan yang lebih baik provided kita mengamalkan ilmu yang dipelajari sebaik mungkin. Insya Allah.

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Have you ever thought of white collar criminals? Yes , those people that work in the office and cook the book so the report will come out nice & attractive. At the end of the day , normally financial gain is expected whether directly or not. After Enron, it seems that white collar crime prevention action or plan earned its place in the media and public. Before Enron, the white collar crime has existed and I believe a lot of people has benefit from the act. (and also lost )
I read an article about the scam about multi level and skim cepat kaya (get rich quicker scheme) , the writer wrote that the victim were actually greedy people who want to be rich by using short cuts. So the criminal should not be hanged or life sentenced as actually no life has been lost. Financial negligence should not be punished as severe as engineering negligence. But like it or not, people are greedy and when they lost their hard earned money for their negligence, they want the criminal to be punished severely, more severe than the engineering negligence as the chaotic atmosphere is less. But sometimes, engineering negligence occur because there is a financial manipulation happens. So in this case, who should bourne the heftier punishment.
It is getting complicated.... I just want those people who cooked the book get jailed and not just fined, but the authority who with clear mind approved the life threatening project should face death sentence or life imprisonment.

Tuesday, July 17, 2007

Talking about betrayal and forgiveness.....

Are you sure you can forgive those who betray you? Those that you thought were loyal to you yet they have betrayed your trust.

I had a friend who believe that right from the engagement day , her in-law & family does not really like her, (His husband ex girlfriend is fairer than her) except the father in law. Making things worse, she cannot cook and had studied abroad. To add on the list, her husband is not the favourite kid of the family.

Together, they lived and despite the uncomfortable feeling, she visit the in-laws because her husband want to be a good son. To cut the story short, their loyalty towards each other is vital and despite anything, I hope they will live happily.

Monday, July 16, 2007

Do you believe that for every action there is always be an equal and opposite reaction?
Do you believe that if you love somebody , you should let him / her free?
Do you believe that getting even just a way to show that you are equally stupid with the other person?
Do you believe that force will not change one's mind nor opinion?
I met a lady last weekend who believe her husband is having an affair with a young woman. The husband does not say a word about it to me, but the bruises on her face suggested that he had hit her. But then , she also provoked his action to do so. Plus, the husband also is in the opinion that his wife is having affair with another guy..., she denied that.Of course, because of this, they fight and she has also physically attacked the other lady. And trying to give a cold shoulder to the husband. The husband, in return (or may be he is the one who started it) also provide a cold reaction...and the fighting continues. ( so does the blaming..it tracked back until before they were even married)
So, does marriage gives you the right to dictate who to love? I think marriage dictates the responsibility but not love. Love is earned and comes from the soul.People fall in and out of love everyday. So you need to take care of the love to ensure it grows and never dies...or at least it is at the same level all the time. Never take anything for granted..even the air that you breath. Responsibility on the other hand ties your need together as it can be measured. Marriage will continue if the couple respect their responsibility and honour it even without love but it is like a lifeless tree, without the soul.

Tuesday, July 03, 2007

A guy walked into my office and asking for donation for an orphanage ... the next thing I know my handphone disappeared from my desk ......I guess the orphanage is really in need of the handphone
YESS, I LOST MY HANDPHONE...IT WAS STOLEN IN THE BRIGHT OFFICE LIGHT
It is not the hanphone that matter, nor the phone numbers. The handphone also stored the photo of late Odie. And I did not have its photo anywhere else.... That is what I really missed, although I do feel sad for the lost material and angry for losing the contact numbers. But as mentioned before it is part and parcel of life and one of the my life's test.

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